Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Falling In Love Is Delicate Issue

How do you fall in love? Do you wait for someone to do the first move or you do the first move? I myself fell in love once before i met my husband. I had a long time relationship to this guy but as what most people say, long term relationship don't last very often. And that's what happened to us, we parted our ways. When i met my husband, i wasn't really sure if that pain in my heart was healed totally already. My husband was being nice to me when we first met, he was a very gentleman, caring and thoughtful.

I was trying to say that i don't fall inlove easy, but if i do, i stick to that someone real closely. I am one caring, loving and a very thoughtful person as well. I can give my everything for the sake of that person i love. I didn't fell inlove with my husband right away since i was thinking then what's gonna happen to us in the future. But then destiny worked its own way. We got married and blessed with three kids. I didn't regret that i decided to get to know more about my husband when he visited me first time back home, he is one imperfect person that his imperfection makes him perfect. He's got some shortcomings but that didn't stopped me from loving him everyday, he is one great guy and he is one man a woman should be looking for to be a husband. I am so lucky and blessed having him as my partner in life.

I was just wondering why some people fall inlove so easy? Do you really call that as true love or is just a call of body's desire? You know what i mean! I can't seem to think how to fall inlove from one person to another in just a small span of time! Some of them are bragging how inlove they were to their partners but then soon after you know, that bragging person is now inlove with someone else??? And then little bit after they split, that someone is again, inlove to someone else??? I just don't get it!!! Is that really love??? Or purely lust??? I don't lift myself up here but that's just what i noticed to the others. And that someone i knew used to criticized someone before, but look at that someone now, doing the same thing just like what the other is doing before. I just feel so sorry for that someone....I still hope that someone will find and learn what really true love is....

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

People have too many differing ideas of what love is, and so the word LOVE is misused most of the time. The only TRUE LOVE is the original version, the rest is fake. The original version has been around since before Adam, and is still and always will be the BEST version, God's love. Unless we are unselfish, and willing to give our life like Jesus did, then it is NOT true love, but mostly it's really far off from true love.

Sweetiepie said...

Oh I simply call it lust when you think you fall in love every person you slept with and not even know who they really are. True love is hardly to come by, and truly love means really LOVE that it would take a long time to get over it or to move on especially being intimate with another person! But lust yes, many people does that just for the sake of it that they are using the word LOVE even they know full well that they are not in love!